Heartbreak Kid, The
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IMDB rating: 5.80 Plot: The story centers on a man who is convinced that he has finally met the right girl and marries too quickly. While on his honeymoon and in the process of discovering that his new bride is a nightmare, he meets the girl of his dreams. |
Actors: Stiller Ben,Stiller Jerry,Mencia Carlos,Corddry Rob,Bryant Joel,Bell E.E.,Bredt Jeff,Hodges David,Jenkins Roy,Comedy,Romance,
Will my ex-girlfriend realize what we had one day?
i been posting this up quite some bit but i just don’t know who else to ask. anyhow: my girlfriend broke up with me 2 and a half months ago. she never explained to me why until about a month ago. her reasons were extremely ridiculous that i thought they were just excuses, and that she lost interest in me or something. this is not the case. her reason for breaking up with me was because once a month i would argue with her about how she cancels plans with me occasionally. she said that every time i would argue with her about it i would always make her feel like crap. well the only reasons i argued with her was because a lot of the times during our relationship she would cancel plans we made together to be with her friends.
now i know you’re probably thinking that she was never interested in the relationship to begin with, and thats why she wanted to hang out with friends. this is far from the truth. she NEVER had any sort of relationship with any guy before. she use to be one of those kids that the other kids would make fun of. so all of her friends are friends she has known since grade school (she doesn’t have many new friends). she hasn’t talked to a single guy since the break up, and she hardly will open up to anyone. she tells me she is depressed and its hard for her, yet she wont allow me to make things better because she thinks this is how break ups are suppose to be.
i loved this girl a lot, because i was like her when i was younger. i was very shy and didn’t have many friends. i had so much in common with her, and i loved her so much. she even tells me after the break up that she cared so much for me. i swear to you, this girl did not lose interest in me or was chasing another guy. i just don’t know what to do. i love this girl a lot, and i dont want to have her out of my life forever because of inexperience. no girl has ever came this close to meaning so much to me. i wouldn’t have fell for her if i wasnt positive she was into me (i had heartbreak before). i wasn’t afraid to give her all my heart. i loved her so much and she loves me still i know it. but no matter what i say to her she wont take me back. what do i do?
Okay girls are confusing and ive done what she did to you. basically i believe that she was scared of getting too close to you and afraid of being so in love with you, when girls get scared they completely back away from the situation. She WILL realize what you guys had and she will regret that she broke up with you, but remember us girls always have our excuses and hers will be, "i was young and stupid" What you need to do is pour your heart out to her and tell her how you really feel you can do this on the phone or in a text or e-mail or whatever but it will really help and she will realize how much you loved her. She might have felt as if you didnt love her that much in your relationship and thats why she left you because girls need a lot of attention lol and you need to tell her you love her like once every hour or more or we feel like they are losing their love for us (lol weird i know). But anyway, let her know how you feel and how you felt when she broke up with you. Girls hate when guys are sad because of something they did so tell her how sad you felt or whatever and i promise you she will be like awwwe im so sorry baby or something like that. Also, if you want to get back with her…tell her how pretty or beautiful she is and how much you care about her and everything. U basically are going to have to suck up to her if you want to get her back (even though she was the one that broke up with you.) And i think she tells you that she is sad and depressed because she really does want you back so ask her if she would ever date you again. You need to be up front with her and tell her how you really feel, if you dont you might regret it.
hope this helps
Sbby | Nov 15, 2009
smoke weed
BLACK HYPNOTIST XXIII | Nov 15, 2009
she dumped you. she doesnt love you anymore. get over it, move on
Mad V | Nov 15, 2009
dude maybe she need space and you were smothering her so she would cancel plans on you. but anyway don’t worry about her anymore, you got to understand when a girl dumps you shes not home trying to get over you, there out there with their gfs meeting new guys or at parties. so you should do the same and if she wants to come back she will but while you wait go see if theres anyone out there that interest you and you might actually like that person more than the last
JOhn | Nov 15, 2009
I say stay friends with her and be there for her without taking the next step, and hopefully as time goes on she and you can try again. If she is really sad then maybe there is something else going on in her life that is upsetting her, and all she needs right now is for you to be there for her
Carlyn | Nov 15, 2009
You will have to wait until she matures, A LOT.
If she is worth it, then do it.
KeithL | Nov 15, 2009
Honestly, there is nothing you can do. She broke up with you, I know it hurts and you really don’t understand her reasons but still she has made it clear that she doesn’t want to date you. Why not tell her how much she means to you and how much her happiness means to you by telling her that if you two can’t date then you’d be willing to settle for being friends. It always works out better in the long run to be friends first anyways. When you are friends with someone for a period of time, you actually get to know the REAL person–not the person they think you want to be dating. Does that make sense?? I hope so. My boyfriend and I were friends for like 8 and a half years before we finally figured out that we were meant to be together, and it’s been an awesome year since we’ve been together. Did you ever think that you and her are only meant to be friends?? Maybe you are the one to bring her out of her shell and free her from her own doubts about life, friends, relationships and just people in general.
cherilynn1973 | Nov 15, 2009
Let her know that what ever relationship she’s in there will be ups and downs. You will have problems that you will need to talk to each other about. If you feel that you’re not being respected in the relationship, then you should be able to say so without threat of losing her. And likewise, if she feels disrepected by you, then she should voice her opinion without fear or penalty. Tell her that you love her and that you don’t want the fact that you argue once in a while to end things between the two of you. Tell her that you will always have arguments from time to time and that you believe your love is strong enough to overcome them. Ask her why she doesn’t believe that the two of you deserve one more chance, and if she truely believes that in real relationships couples don’t have disagreements or arguements.
If she doesn’t take you back, then yes. Years later she will look back and realize she had something special and threw it all away because she was young and dumb.
jjoy74135 | Nov 15, 2009
